For the whole of last week there has been no escaping this. Britain seems to have erupted into a national debate over the alleged racist remarks directed towards Indian actress Shilpa Shetty in a reality TV show ‘Celebrity Big Brother’. It is everywhere – in offices, cabs, retail outlets, parks - basically any public place/ event involving people greater than one; not mentioning the media and its relentless coverage of the issue. Being Indian hasn't helped - every non Indian friend/ acquaintance gingerly approaches the topic to know the ‘rational’ (yeah!) Indian sentiment – Were Jade Goody and her ilk racist or was it just a case of bullying? Are Indians and a big part of the British public over-reacting?? Or is the UK rapidly turning into an intolerant society??
Now I have no hang-ups in admitting that I enjoy the occasional Vanity Fair or Heat :-) – it's a world shockingly different from my own and is a welcome break after heavy days of intellectual snobbery. But I have never been able to get through a single episode of Big Brother until this flare-up. I actually don't own a TV (inherently lazy self needs just the slightest excuse to spend the whole day in bed), but the one episode I did begin to watch was appalling to say the least. The entire format of this kind of reality TV is sickening – the producers revel in display of human nature at its worst extremes masquerading it as ‘entertainment’ and even worse, it actually seems to capture sufficient eye balls to keep their purses ringing.
Shilpa Shetty has however changed it all. 6 hours of intense CBB watching and several votes for Jade’s eviction (ah! The new-age patriotism) later, there is now an intense need to voice an opinion on the subject :-) Every Black, Asian, Hispanic, German, French, even Scottish dudes have been hogging prime time expressing their views specifically on whether the comments on CBB had an implied racial slur and more generally on whether UK has become an intolerant racist society. With true desi Indian blood running through my veins, it will be spiteful not to have my 10 pennies worth :-)! Besides, Ms Shetty and moi (and the gals, you know who you are) come from the same under-grad college (Bombay's geek hangout - Podar). So here’s the low-down...
To be fair to Jade Goody, she did come across as a far more genuine person than Shilpa and between the two of them, it was definitely Shilpa with a chip on the shoulder. But hey, this is entertainment on television. Why must there be brownie points for being ‘real’?? And come’ on! The show is ‘Celebrity’ big brother!! By definition, the people involved are ones who have lived larger than life personalities for most part of their lives and fundamentally come in with inflated egos. The social situation is attempted to be made interesting by the fact that people who have lived unreal lives for most part get down to a house of managed reality – where they need to cook their own food, wash their clothes and generally don't have a bevy of helpers of various kinds around. So, what was Jade Goody thinking?? Jade herself is a product of reality TV – she participated in BB 4 years back and is now supposedly the 25th most influential person in the world - turning in $8 million per annum top line for sale of perfumes, TV shows and an assorted other bunch of solutions riding on her brand!! (And I have spent half my life getting educated and am spending the rest apparently in building dreams – seriously! Should have taken the easier route to fame!!) But nothing, really nothing excuses attacking someone on their ethnic origin. Eating with the fingers and "who knows where she put them first???" Bleaching face because "oh do you have a stubble like a man??" And because ‘"she wants to be white’’ “F*** off home to your ‘shack’??” Well, pretty racist and almost unforgivable I say.
Is this a mirror to the British society or generally the world per se?? Just purely going by the extent of sentiment this has aroused, it would be hard to say ... Several thousand people seem to have taken these comments as a personal assault, almost as if it was their personal angst now magnified on the screen. Tolerance appears to be limited not just in Western societies, but also in societies across the world (including Indian) for anything that is ‘different’. The fear of the ‘unknown’ is a rather powerful one and appears to instill suspicion, mistrust in many. For some, it is a function of the insecurities within. Information partly seems to break these barriers, it at least resolves the ‘unknown’ part of the equation (One of my close pals here is English, but is also one of the better traveled people I know). For the other, there is little help – it is so much a product of one’s upbringing and surroundings, and to the extent that is less than perfect, there will always continue to be an undercurrent of friction.
As for Shilpa, well, looking forward to seeing her on every other issue of Vanity Fair and Heat :-) She is a celebrity in the making here....$6 big ones for appearing on the show and the counter is still ticking for a lot - lot - more.....
Monday, January 22, 2007
The Word
For all those days of being caught up - a little something from today's minstrels. Loved it.
"The Word"
Down near the bottom
of the crossed-out list
of things you have to do today,
between "green thread"
and "broccoli" you find
that you have penciled "sunlight."
Resting on the page, the word
is as beautiful, it touches you
as if you had a friend
and sunlight were a present
he had sent you from some place distant
as this morning -- to cheer you up,
and to remind you that,
among your duties, pleasure
is a thing,
that also needs accomplishing
Do you remember?
that time and light are kinds
of love, and love
is no less practical
than a coffee grinder
or a safe spare tire?
Tomorrow you may be utterly
without a clue
but today you get a telegram,
from the heart in exile
proclaiming that the kingdom
still exists,
the king and queen alive,
still speaking to their children,
- to any one among them
who can find the time,
to sit out in the sun and listen.
-- Tony Hoagland
"The Word"
Down near the bottom
of the crossed-out list
of things you have to do today,
between "green thread"
and "broccoli" you find
that you have penciled "sunlight."
Resting on the page, the word
is as beautiful, it touches you
as if you had a friend
and sunlight were a present
he had sent you from some place distant
as this morning -- to cheer you up,
and to remind you that,
among your duties, pleasure
is a thing,
that also needs accomplishing
Do you remember?
that time and light are kinds
of love, and love
is no less practical
than a coffee grinder
or a safe spare tire?
Tomorrow you may be utterly
without a clue
but today you get a telegram,
from the heart in exile
proclaiming that the kingdom
still exists,
the king and queen alive,
still speaking to their children,
- to any one among them
who can find the time,
to sit out in the sun and listen.
-- Tony Hoagland
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Amsterdam
Va va wooooooooommmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Absolutely stunning!! Very close to being my favourite European city so far. For such a long time, Amsterdam to my mind represented sleaze, dope, the Red Light District and general party place. Oh how mistaken I was!! My work-related research tells me that Amsterdam is THE most popular tourist destination in Europe, with Barcelona coming in second. After this trip, I am not surprised.
Amsterdam is all that it is touted to be. It’s a city that embraced very forward ideas and legalised prostitution, same sex marriages, abortion etc way before any of their counterparts worldwide. Yet, it is so much, so much more..To begin with, little is written about what a truly charming city this is. ‘Venice of the north’ some call it. Other say, Venice must be called, ‘Amsterdam of the South’. It is surprising though – Venice has found so many artists appreciating it – atleast a million paintings done so far on the charming little canals in Venice, not so much on Amsterdam though. It is a city that has been largely built by reclaiming land from the sea. It has a few hundred canals with a few thousand bridges. Something about water makes me insane – it just adds so much character to a city. Every few minutes of walking and one comes across a water body, complete with beautiful trees around it. This place must really come alive in summer, there is so much vegetation and I am told that the streets are lined with Tulips.
The next truly beautiful aspect I loved is the architecture. One of my favourite things about London (and not so much about NYC or Mumbai) is the white period buildings, done in 3-4 storeys. White is a predominant color in London’s architecture as is brown in Rome and green in Stockholm. But in Amsterdam, red it is. The same beautiful brick buildings in various shades and hues of reddish brown. Brick buildings similar to the Gothic architecture, but done in a very unique Dutch style. Again, like London, no high rises – most buildings are 3-4 storied. The tram is a big mode of public transport and streets are quite narrow and again mostly of stone (not concrete) – again adding onto that mystical character of the city. Overall, it was a treat to the eyes – I have fallen in love with this city.
People of all ethnicities live here – the city is very crowded unlike Greece. Housing has been a predominant problem, so people resorted to building house boats – there are 5,000 house boats in Amsterdam, with water, electricity and other necessary connections!! Food is never a problem, the huge inflow of tourists have resulted into plenty of Chinese, Mexican, Indian food joints all over the city.
I am a self confessed Museum Geek, so spent a large part of one day at the Van Gogh museum. Now this is a must visit, even if you don’t really enjoying art so much. It has about 200 paintings from various stages of Van Gogh’s life. Van Gogh and Rembrant are the Dutch contributions to the Great Masters. Something about Van Gogh’s life is so disturbing – the story of a loser in his living, but genius after death. A story of a knowledge of something powerful, the ability to see and touch the other world….the sensitivity of a true artist, yet trapped in the frustration of the lack of recognition, an inability to communicate to the world…..yet such sheer genius in work……a story of it having gone wrong…unrequited love, unfulfilled dreams …yet spectacular beauty in the mind. I can go on and on about Van Gogh – one of the most engaging painters of all time, truly one of the revered Great Master, his work inspired the whole Expressionist movement thereafter. Some of the famous Expressionists even followed in the master’s footsteps and suffered from a series of mental derangements towards the later part of their lives. I think Van Gogh’s tragic real life story in many ways was a point of identification for many people worldwide….his unhappy life, yet his mind – oh his beautiful mind reflected in his paintings…his thick brush strokes, rough painting style….the desperation, frustration, hope – all reflected in each and every stroke…..The classical masters were excellent technicians, brilliant with an expression of reality as is. Van Gogh was not high on technique, but the expression of reality in its raw emotional sense as he perceived it….expression of emotions through the nature….hope for eg, through a full blossomed almond tree, insanity through swirling Cyprus trees…..the rawness is there in his paint, in his colors….this is carried forward in the Expressionist movement in paintings. Bright colors, vivid expressions – starkness of reality in its pyschic emotional sense. Van-Gogh himself was a post-impressionist, drawing many painting techniques from the impressionist era. Spent a 100 euro buying every print I could of his paintings. Apparently, he could sell only one painting while he was alive. Such a pity.
Anyways, I am coming back here again in summer…..Amsterdam is up there….definitely go visit if you plan to do a European tour sometime.
Greece
January has been a good month so far. Plenty of travelling as most bankers are just returning from vacations, so work has been generally on the lull. So, finally have been finding time to resume my travels.
R, who has finished lazing around after that 2 year vacation called the MBA, has now started her consulting assignments. Latest one being in Greece, where R is currently frauding some unsuspecting enterprise of millions of pounds :-) - reminds me of Warren Buffet’s opening letter in the 2005 Berkshire Hathway Annual Report – well, I promised never to bring the investment banking world to this blog – so suffice to say it was something about how consultants, bankers and the rest of the ‘helper’ class are generally upto no good :-) and should be cleansed from the system. Interesting write-up, but cause of much controversy as BH owns significant stakes in several of the ‘helper’ companies and shareholders were not pleased! Anyways, coming back to R, we realised that despite 23 years of speaking almost every day with each other, we had never done any travel together….So, we decided to make the most of R’s client and planned a quick weekend trip to Greece. S, our dear friend, with whom we did our last trip to Italy together is in Philly, still enjoying the 2 year holiday in Wharton and was sorely missed :-) Ok, so were B, Sm and A before you start complaining :-)) Gaah...Women!!!
I find exploring places with friends/ family to be quite a different experience from visitng places alone. For one, the nights are longer – unless you want to experiment in potentially interesting ways ;-) But despite being unmoulded generally, years of living in Bombay have made me quite uptight about dealing with the fishy category (‘Machlis’ as R refers to the lot :-) ), enough experiences in the past have done their bit to ward me off late night ventures. Second, the sense of connection with a place appears to be much stronger when one is exploring in isolation. A completely free enjoyment - perhaps silence and company of one’s thoughts makes the not so obvious stand out. Third, if you are an arty museum geek like I am, you can spend days standing and staring at paintings without any feeling of guilt :-) Having said that, the truly wonderful thing about travelling with someone is that the trip is always associated with the someone and adds on beautifully to the repertoire of many wonderful shared memories.
Anyways, our Greek friends (a total of 2) and lonely planet recommended a maximum of a day's stay at Athens, so we decided to spend the next day exploring some of the other Greek islands. As they say, Greece is really about the Acropolis and the islands. The country has been invaded so many times by the Romans, the Turks etc that very little of their rich heritage has been preserved. The Acropolis is quite spectacular, it is one of the things to knock off on the list of things to see, but much of the architecture is in ruins. The Partheon had to be reconstructed several times over to restore its beauty. The Acropolis is constructed on top of a hill and can be viewed from most parts of Athens, at night it is spectacularly lit up and really stands out as a beautiful monument.
Athens as a city is quite well constructed – wide roads resulting into shocking speeds of automobiles (R and I have miraculously escaped seeing our ends on foreign soil – several times over. With our constant chatter and consequent absent mindedness of the existence and purpose of traffic lights, we have only slightly missed instant death!). But it is far from being comparable to the richness of Rome, for eg, another city wih equally rich heritage, but the Italians have done a great job of preserving their past.
Streets in Athens are covered with orange trees, its quite pretty to see little trees full of oranges all over the city. Vegetarians would find it really tough, very few non-Europeans live here and hence an Italian restaurant would be your best bet to a good meal, unless of course, you fancy the Greek salad with tons of Feta cheese as your staple diet :-). The population is predominantly Greek orthodox, the Roman and Turkish invasions have not resulted into any sizeable Roman Catholic or Muslim population. But eastern influences are seen in many of the Greek artwork – vibrant red and blue colors with Arabic designs in the porcelain ware, handicrafts, shawls and other artwork which are sold in every little street tourist shop.
The other interesting thing was the Greek alphabets. We are all familiar with the many Greek alphabets from school math days – the alpha, beta, gamma, lambda, pie, epsilon, sigmas and the rest – but memory has always placed each of these alphabets individually. Seeing it come together in words was quite bizarre to the eye :-). Learnt that the first letter of these words is indeed how the alphabet is spelt ie A in Greek is written as alpha, beta stands for B, sigma for S, pie for p and so on. Quite amusing.
One thing that has to be mentioned is the Greek male obsession with leather jackets!!! Every alternate man on the street has the trademark leather jacket on. The female equivalent of this is fur. Greek women apparently love having a little fur stitched onto their overcoats, many times its just fur all the way. And a significant portion of the people are constantly seen with ciggies in their mouth – apparently smoking is permissible even in offices, let alone public places. Cabbies don’t think twice about lighting up even when they are driving you, most times they are happy to offer a smoke to you as well.
Day 2 was spent in a cruise to one of the Greek islands Hydra. A very pretty little town. R and me decided to get to our adventurous best and huffed and puffed our way up to the top of the mountain which constitutes this island. We were rewarded with a spectacular view of the sea from the top, v panoramic. But the island was filled with atleast a gazillion cats!!!! I have never seen so many cats together at one place ever – of all shapes, sizes and colors. R, who is a cat lover since time immemorial was at most times walking around like pied piper with a stream of cats in tow behind. Lonely planet had mentioned sad-eyed cats in the Acropolis (though the one R petted was far from being sad eyed and left R with a nice scratch to show for affection!), but this was an island where there were more cats, sad-eyed or otherwise than people!!
And yes, for that one person who was enquiring (you know who you are), didnt meet any Greek Gods :-) Atleast, none yet...
Anyways, that was the end of one quick Greece visit. Off to Amsterdam next week, let see what the Dutch are like! Some pics below.....
Snapshot of Hydra
The Plaka - a pretty little street near the Acropolis
The Acropolis - as seen from the city
The Acropolis - close up of the Partheon
R, who has finished lazing around after that 2 year vacation called the MBA, has now started her consulting assignments. Latest one being in Greece, where R is currently frauding some unsuspecting enterprise of millions of pounds :-) - reminds me of Warren Buffet’s opening letter in the 2005 Berkshire Hathway Annual Report – well, I promised never to bring the investment banking world to this blog – so suffice to say it was something about how consultants, bankers and the rest of the ‘helper’ class are generally upto no good :-) and should be cleansed from the system. Interesting write-up, but cause of much controversy as BH owns significant stakes in several of the ‘helper’ companies and shareholders were not pleased! Anyways, coming back to R, we realised that despite 23 years of speaking almost every day with each other, we had never done any travel together….So, we decided to make the most of R’s client and planned a quick weekend trip to Greece. S, our dear friend, with whom we did our last trip to Italy together is in Philly, still enjoying the 2 year holiday in Wharton and was sorely missed :-) Ok, so were B, Sm and A before you start complaining :-)) Gaah...Women!!!
I find exploring places with friends/ family to be quite a different experience from visitng places alone. For one, the nights are longer – unless you want to experiment in potentially interesting ways ;-) But despite being unmoulded generally, years of living in Bombay have made me quite uptight about dealing with the fishy category (‘Machlis’ as R refers to the lot :-) ), enough experiences in the past have done their bit to ward me off late night ventures. Second, the sense of connection with a place appears to be much stronger when one is exploring in isolation. A completely free enjoyment - perhaps silence and company of one’s thoughts makes the not so obvious stand out. Third, if you are an arty museum geek like I am, you can spend days standing and staring at paintings without any feeling of guilt :-) Having said that, the truly wonderful thing about travelling with someone is that the trip is always associated with the someone and adds on beautifully to the repertoire of many wonderful shared memories.
Anyways, our Greek friends (a total of 2) and lonely planet recommended a maximum of a day's stay at Athens, so we decided to spend the next day exploring some of the other Greek islands. As they say, Greece is really about the Acropolis and the islands. The country has been invaded so many times by the Romans, the Turks etc that very little of their rich heritage has been preserved. The Acropolis is quite spectacular, it is one of the things to knock off on the list of things to see, but much of the architecture is in ruins. The Partheon had to be reconstructed several times over to restore its beauty. The Acropolis is constructed on top of a hill and can be viewed from most parts of Athens, at night it is spectacularly lit up and really stands out as a beautiful monument.
Athens as a city is quite well constructed – wide roads resulting into shocking speeds of automobiles (R and I have miraculously escaped seeing our ends on foreign soil – several times over. With our constant chatter and consequent absent mindedness of the existence and purpose of traffic lights, we have only slightly missed instant death!). But it is far from being comparable to the richness of Rome, for eg, another city wih equally rich heritage, but the Italians have done a great job of preserving their past.
Streets in Athens are covered with orange trees, its quite pretty to see little trees full of oranges all over the city. Vegetarians would find it really tough, very few non-Europeans live here and hence an Italian restaurant would be your best bet to a good meal, unless of course, you fancy the Greek salad with tons of Feta cheese as your staple diet :-). The population is predominantly Greek orthodox, the Roman and Turkish invasions have not resulted into any sizeable Roman Catholic or Muslim population. But eastern influences are seen in many of the Greek artwork – vibrant red and blue colors with Arabic designs in the porcelain ware, handicrafts, shawls and other artwork which are sold in every little street tourist shop.
The other interesting thing was the Greek alphabets. We are all familiar with the many Greek alphabets from school math days – the alpha, beta, gamma, lambda, pie, epsilon, sigmas and the rest – but memory has always placed each of these alphabets individually. Seeing it come together in words was quite bizarre to the eye :-). Learnt that the first letter of these words is indeed how the alphabet is spelt ie A in Greek is written as alpha, beta stands for B, sigma for S, pie for p and so on. Quite amusing.
One thing that has to be mentioned is the Greek male obsession with leather jackets!!! Every alternate man on the street has the trademark leather jacket on. The female equivalent of this is fur. Greek women apparently love having a little fur stitched onto their overcoats, many times its just fur all the way. And a significant portion of the people are constantly seen with ciggies in their mouth – apparently smoking is permissible even in offices, let alone public places. Cabbies don’t think twice about lighting up even when they are driving you, most times they are happy to offer a smoke to you as well.
Day 2 was spent in a cruise to one of the Greek islands Hydra. A very pretty little town. R and me decided to get to our adventurous best and huffed and puffed our way up to the top of the mountain which constitutes this island. We were rewarded with a spectacular view of the sea from the top, v panoramic. But the island was filled with atleast a gazillion cats!!!! I have never seen so many cats together at one place ever – of all shapes, sizes and colors. R, who is a cat lover since time immemorial was at most times walking around like pied piper with a stream of cats in tow behind. Lonely planet had mentioned sad-eyed cats in the Acropolis (though the one R petted was far from being sad eyed and left R with a nice scratch to show for affection!), but this was an island where there were more cats, sad-eyed or otherwise than people!!
And yes, for that one person who was enquiring (you know who you are), didnt meet any Greek Gods :-) Atleast, none yet...
Anyways, that was the end of one quick Greece visit. Off to Amsterdam next week, let see what the Dutch are like! Some pics below.....
Snapshot of Hydra
The Plaka - a pretty little street near the Acropolis
The Acropolis - as seen from the city
The Acropolis - close up of the Partheon
Thursday, January 11, 2007
Two Cities
A recent business visit to New York City re-inforced everything I felt on my first short stay 2 years back – the similarities with my hometown, Bombay. I find it truly incredible that 2 cities so far apart in geography are yet so close in spirit. The smell of the air, pulse of the people, buzz in the environment is unmistakably identical. A thoroughbred Bombayite (will still take a while to get to Mumbaikar, lived out of Bombay for most part after it was rechristened to Mumbai), it was an instant feeling of home from the very moment I stepped out of JFK. Home at a magnified scale. Much taller buildings, much longer cars, much more oversized food portions, a lot less in your face poverty. But similar voices – of dreams, hope - of a better tomorrow. Silent noises of survival.
A home I have now grown away from......where I now long for the sounds of silence, stillness....a softer existence. Often wonder if these modernised sophisticated societies, standing as testimony to man's glory of progress, development have finally resulted in a net positive towards that elusive pursuit of happiness. Fulfilment, almost mockingly, appears to lie embedded in simpler realities. Ah, well, that's another story, another post.
A home I have now grown away from......where I now long for the sounds of silence, stillness....a softer existence. Often wonder if these modernised sophisticated societies, standing as testimony to man's glory of progress, development have finally resulted in a net positive towards that elusive pursuit of happiness. Fulfilment, almost mockingly, appears to lie embedded in simpler realities. Ah, well, that's another story, another post.
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